Life Coaching for Smart Women at a Crossroads

Creative Female Entrepreneurs



I find immense joy in sharing the invaluable lessons I've learned throughout my journey leading a successful exhibition design agency for more than 25 years.
My coaching style is a fusion of creativity, strategy, and unwavering support, using a combination of CBT, NLP and EFT modalities and I use a unique psychometric assessment for resilience & wellbeing at work (Wraw).
I believe that within each of us lies the strength to tackle life's challenges and that we don't need to "have it all"; we just deserve to have what we truly desire.
Are you ready to Become HER, an entrepreneur who embodies authenticity, innovation and impact?
When you work through my signature programme you embark on a life changing journey of transformation as we get laser focus on your Vision, Mindset, Strategy, Power, and Balance. Together, we tackle common challenges such as confidence, clarity, imposter syndrome, procrastination, decision-making, work/life balance, money mindset and the pursuit of growth and visibility. You will discover the three key invisible barriers to your success and how to break through them.
When you work through my signature programme you embark on a life changing journey of transformation: Vision, Mindset, Strategy, Power, and Balance. Together, we tackle common challenges such as confidence, clarity, imposter syndrome, procrastination, decision-making, and the pursuit of growth and visibility. You will discover the three key invisible barriers to your success and how to break through them.
To create a tribe—a community where women feel seen, heard, visible, and supported for their uniqueness, passions, and individuality. I'm dedicated to providing a space where women business owners can find a sense of belonging while stepping away from societal expectations and to use my gifts of experience, learning and belief to amplify the self-worth and net-worth of my clients.
To create a tribe, a community where women feel seen, heard, visible, and supported for their uniqueness, passions, and individuality. I'm dedicated to providing a space where women business owners can find a sense of belonging while stepping away from societal expectations and to use my gifts of experience, learning and belief to amplify the self-worth and net-worth of my clients.

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A behavioural operating system that drives performance, profit and potential.
Inside creative and experiential agencies, leadership has never been more contradictory.
Teams crave autonomy yet still look for direction.
Clients push for excellence while compressing timelines.
Leaders want calm, but operate within a business model that thrives on urgency.
And somewhere between the pace, politics and pressure sits a single distinction that shapes everything:
Is a leader operating above the line or below it?
For years, the industry has talked about “resilience,” “positivity,” or “being a safe pair of hands.” None of that gets to the heart of what actually drives stability inside a modern agency.
Above-the-line leadership is not motivational.
It’s not emotional fluff.
It’s not “good vibes under pressure.”
It’s behavioural.
It’s structural.
It’s commercial.
And once you see it, you can’t unsee it.
People often assume this concept is about attitude or mindset.
In reality, it’s far more operational.
Above-the-line leadership is behavioural clarity.
Below-the-line leadership is behavioural reactivity.
Above the line is what stabilises delivery, strengthens decisions and calms a room.
Below the line is what quietly drains margin, confuses teams and elevates pressure.
holding emotional steadiness when deadlines tighten
making clear, timely decisions at the right altitude
addressing issues before they escalate
protecting role and capacity with clean boundaries
directing rather than rescuing
regulating before responding
firefighting disguised as commitment
taking on work because "it’s quicker if I do it"
rewriting, redoing, fixing instead of leading
avoiding discomfort and creating bigger problems later
absorbing everyone’s emotional load
making inconsistent decisions driven by pressure, not clarity
One behaviour pattern creates stability.
The other creates invisible commercial leakage the kind no timesheet will ever reveal, but every agency feels.
(A 2017 McKinsey paper on organisational health found that the most commercially resilient teams weren’t the fastest they were the calmest. Above-the-line behaviour is often the root of that steadiness.)
It’s not loud. It’s not heroic. It’s behavioural precision.
You know you’re looking at an above-the-line leader when:
Pressure rises, timelines squeeze, a client emails at 4pm on a Friday.
Their steadiness doesn’t slip.
When they speak, the room inhales again.
They don’t collapse into delivery to “help.”
They stay at altitude guiding, not doing.
This is where commercial clarity lives.
Meeting hygiene.
Decision hygiene.
Capacity hygiene.
Their boundaries support operational health, not personal preference.
Not rushed.
Not delayed.
Just clean.
They don’t spiral into perfectionism or use overthinking as a shield.
The emotional temperature drops around them.
Their clarity gives others permission to think clearly too.
Culture rises in their presence.
These are not soft skills.
These are commercial behaviours.
Leadership behaviour is a profit centre or a silent drain.
Above-the-line leadership:
reduces rework (because decisions are clearer)
stabilises timelines (because leadership isn’t erratic)
calms client relationships (because leaders regulate themselves first)
protects margin (because boundaries stop over-service)
strengthens culture (because behaviour becomes predictable)
builds succession capability (because leadership becomes teachable, not personality-based)
Below-the-line behaviour, on the other hand, is extremely expensive.
Even if the work gets done, it costs you through:
burnout
poor delegation
churn
incoherent decision pathways
emotional volatility
inefficiencies buried in delivery layers
Most agencies blame process or capacity when they’re actually experiencing leadership behaviour.
Agencies rise or fall on these micro-behaviours long before they rise or fall on strategy.
This is the behavioural architecture behind my consultancy work.
You cannot lead from dysregulation and expect steadiness below you.
Leaders understand exactly where to lead from and what to stop carrying.
Not “saying no.”
But using boundaries as commercial infrastructure that protects profit and protects teams.
Clean, timely decision-making that removes ambiguity and accelerates delivery.
Sustainable structure beats reactive effort every time.
We build the cadence that holds leaders above the line.
Above-the-line leadership is not personality.
It is a system you learn, practise and maintain.
Above-the-line leadership isn’t about being perfect it’s about being consistent.
The difference between a steady agency and a reactive one is often just a handful of leaders who know how to hold themselves, hold their role and hold the line.
If your leadership layer is operating below its potential, I can help you elevate it.
Message me ABOVE THE LINE and let’s talk.

A behavioural operating system that drives performance, profit and potential.
Inside creative and experiential agencies, leadership has never been more contradictory.
Teams crave autonomy yet still look for direction.
Clients push for excellence while compressing timelines.
Leaders want calm, but operate within a business model that thrives on urgency.
And somewhere between the pace, politics and pressure sits a single distinction that shapes everything:
Is a leader operating above the line or below it?
For years, the industry has talked about “resilience,” “positivity,” or “being a safe pair of hands.” None of that gets to the heart of what actually drives stability inside a modern agency.
Above-the-line leadership is not motivational.
It’s not emotional fluff.
It’s not “good vibes under pressure.”
It’s behavioural.
It’s structural.
It’s commercial.
And once you see it, you can’t unsee it.
People often assume this concept is about attitude or mindset.
In reality, it’s far more operational.
Above-the-line leadership is behavioural clarity.
Below-the-line leadership is behavioural reactivity.
Above the line is what stabilises delivery, strengthens decisions and calms a room.
Below the line is what quietly drains margin, confuses teams and elevates pressure.
holding emotional steadiness when deadlines tighten
making clear, timely decisions at the right altitude
addressing issues before they escalate
protecting role and capacity with clean boundaries
directing rather than rescuing
regulating before responding
firefighting disguised as commitment
taking on work because "it’s quicker if I do it"
rewriting, redoing, fixing instead of leading
avoiding discomfort and creating bigger problems later
absorbing everyone’s emotional load
making inconsistent decisions driven by pressure, not clarity
One behaviour pattern creates stability.
The other creates invisible commercial leakage the kind no timesheet will ever reveal, but every agency feels.
(A 2017 McKinsey paper on organisational health found that the most commercially resilient teams weren’t the fastest they were the calmest. Above-the-line behaviour is often the root of that steadiness.)
It’s not loud. It’s not heroic. It’s behavioural precision.
You know you’re looking at an above-the-line leader when:
Pressure rises, timelines squeeze, a client emails at 4pm on a Friday.
Their steadiness doesn’t slip.
When they speak, the room inhales again.
They don’t collapse into delivery to “help.”
They stay at altitude guiding, not doing.
This is where commercial clarity lives.
Meeting hygiene.
Decision hygiene.
Capacity hygiene.
Their boundaries support operational health, not personal preference.
Not rushed.
Not delayed.
Just clean.
They don’t spiral into perfectionism or use overthinking as a shield.
The emotional temperature drops around them.
Their clarity gives others permission to think clearly too.
Culture rises in their presence.
These are not soft skills.
These are commercial behaviours.
Leadership behaviour is a profit centre or a silent drain.
Above-the-line leadership:
reduces rework (because decisions are clearer)
stabilises timelines (because leadership isn’t erratic)
calms client relationships (because leaders regulate themselves first)
protects margin (because boundaries stop over-service)
strengthens culture (because behaviour becomes predictable)
builds succession capability (because leadership becomes teachable, not personality-based)
Below-the-line behaviour, on the other hand, is extremely expensive.
Even if the work gets done, it costs you through:
burnout
poor delegation
churn
incoherent decision pathways
emotional volatility
inefficiencies buried in delivery layers
Most agencies blame process or capacity when they’re actually experiencing leadership behaviour.
Agencies rise or fall on these micro-behaviours long before they rise or fall on strategy.
This is the behavioural architecture behind my consultancy work.
You cannot lead from dysregulation and expect steadiness below you.
Leaders understand exactly where to lead from and what to stop carrying.
Not “saying no.”
But using boundaries as commercial infrastructure that protects profit and protects teams.
Clean, timely decision-making that removes ambiguity and accelerates delivery.
Sustainable structure beats reactive effort every time.
We build the cadence that holds leaders above the line.
Above-the-line leadership is not personality.
It is a system you learn, practise and maintain.
Above-the-line leadership isn’t about being perfect it’s about being consistent.
The difference between a steady agency and a reactive one is often just a handful of leaders who know how to hold themselves, hold their role and hold the line.
If your leadership layer is operating below its potential, I can help you elevate it.
Message me ABOVE THE LINE and let’s talk.

Carla Cortesi, Animal Assisted Therapist


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